RELATIONSHiPS

-- R E L A T i O N S H i P S --

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Okas, so i have thought LONG and HARD on this subject and I've come to a Conclusion.

This is purely my Opinion so dn't take it to heart, that i'm 100% correct lol.

You could agree, Disagree.. but hey! this is my Blog. I can write whatever I please haha XD

In my 20 years of living so Far.... I dn't know How my experience will change in the

future. But only from what i have known and personally been through. In these 20 long years, of growing up and having been through my first half of life. It's Truth that... [ HUMANs are not Meant to be Alone, and no matter how strong you can be. We were Made by GOD to rely on one another, to need each other.

To Communicate is the key life, to Existence. Without it, we are souless bodys, just flowing along...] Why would i Say that? Because That is exactly what i'm experiencing. Maybe... even you could say I'm using my self as an Experiment. To test my human Limits and see how far i could go without Needing someone. To Learn to rely on only ME. And the Conclusion is... we all need Each other in One form or another.

There's Times I've sat quietly, to observe my friend and familys relationship to see

How it will go and how it will end? The reason; I'm just a very observational sort of person. I don't criticize, but i observe and draw from those experiences and learn a little more about Human Nature. So what have i Seen? I hope my Friends do not get offended for me, putting there personals up here hehe =)

I won't put names, but when i describe these situations. They will know who they are.. But i want them to know. Because of them also.. Is what makes me Who I AM.

A friend of mines relationship is so complicated, everything around her seems to suffocate her to an extent sometimes even she can't handle. There's times i can see she wants to run away from the situation, the relationship. Her significant other doesn't seem to Understand, nor does he respond at all to her at times. I've told her numerous times.. why dn't you just leave? She has never given me a reply, But in her heart I know she can't decide. I wonder to myself... Why? if your hurting.. if your suffering.. you find a way to get rid of the pain right?? No!! this is all a-part of a Relationship when you've put yourself into it. No Pain, No Gain. and No turning Back.. no U-turn... seems the end of the world right??

WRONG! Because... when i see them in there happiest moments, i understand. Those painful times are forever Masked by the Happiness they have even in 1 seconds time. Even from my experience, i have loved a person like that, but i tend to forget since he's no longer here with me. Even if i had only 1 day to love, and forever To Miss. I would still have said Yes! to the Pain and heartache staring me Straight in the FACE laughing at me. Because in the End, and at the end of the Day. We all Need Some One, no matter who it is... But mostly That significant person. The One! Only you could express your true feelings to. The one that, you could Hugg and know that right there is a piece of heaven your holding. A friend is special, but there is something. Especially Special that GOD has created within US that only. With that ONE, can we be Whole.

Personally; Maybe i'm going through one of those, lonely person times for writing this post. Or Perhaps, i just want to point out the Key To being Happy in Life. If you dn't know yet, Its " LOVE " nothing in this world has any type of importance without it... Even for the Rich and Famous. We have seen and known Numerous,

rich and famous people who are truthfully Un-Happy. With there fortune.. why should they be sad? depressed? because for one thing.. maybe another is sacrificed and most of the time. Love is whats Sacrificed for success and fame. My thoughts Exactly. I have Traded all my Love in for Success. and i'm sure there's many out there who agrees me as well. But, Love is not worth losing for anything in this world.

It's like Giving 80% to Gain 100% but in reality you've only gotton 90% back. So whats the significant of that missing 10% anyways right? I'll tell you, many people in this world has committed suicide, homicide.. numerous painful things for Just that missing 10% they could never Gain Back. You find it in NEWS! STORYS! seen it in DRAMAS! T.V shows! and even been thru it yourself, i'm sure.

In-Conclusion; I'll leave it at the point that " We all need some-one " You, Me, them, Her, Him, every-one! So, if you've found that Person, Do not take it forgranted. Life is much too short to see only the Pain and not forward to the happiness ahead. And even if there is None in the future. I challenge you! to Make that happiness Happen. Were Humans!! we are capable of that much, give yourself some credit lol. And We are the only living intelligent people with a Soul. Not including *aliens* O_o lol. why? cause we mite know they have intelligence, but i'm not sure if they live with soul as we do. So for Now it's Just US.

For the ones, whose just like ME. were basically the loners. Either we've been thrown

on this path for no reason at all. Or We have chose to be here. Let's Find a way to Open our hearts agian, and Find our Key to happiness once agian. " Love "

QUOTES FOR  YOUR THOUGHTS:

“Love has no other desire but to fulfill itself. To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving.”

~ Kahlil Gibran on love

“I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love.”

~ Mother Teresa

"I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you."